Chapters Summary

Chapter 1
Understanding Why Your Relationship Ended (And Why It’s Not Over Just Yet)

Men and women leave relationships for different reasons. In this chapter Jackson tells you how to find the reason why your husband left and how to fix the problem so that it won’t happen again.
One of the reasons is that men will abandon a relationship when it’s no longer giving them what they need. In this chapter he tells you what you husband needs and how to satisfy this need.

Chapter 2
Your husband has left and you’re now panicking. Chapter two shows you how to be calm so that you can take control the situation. Learn the things you must avoid doing, and the things that you should do.

Even when you have to see or be in the presence of your ex after the breakup, you learn how to calmly handle the situation that will in turn help turn the tides in your favor.

The Fast Forward Technique- this technique really helped me. Separating from your husband can be painful; if you are still struggling with your emotions, this technique helps you get over this pain in the quickest way possible so you can start taking control of your relationship

Chapter 3
Removing the Splinter in Your Relationship?
Learn how to evaluate your relationship and decide whether or not it is worth saving, or whether you should move on.

Chapter 4
Re-Igniting the Spark of Passion and Desire

How do you go back to the beginning of your relationship?
You have to first begin with yourself. This chapter tells you how to begin this process and get the ball rolling on your relationship. Also learn how to use your friends to help you

Chapter 5
Learn how other people can actually bring you back together with your husband or ex.
Jackson presents 12 powerful tips to get you started.
Has you ex started dating, learn what to do in this situation and also what you must never do.

Chapter 6
You feel like you’re ready to start connecting back with you husband or ex. Chapter 6 teaches you how to ease back into your relationship to solidify your love.
Learn how to effectively coordinate your first contact, “get together” or date with your husband/ex after the separation. There are things you can say or do that will alarm you husband. Jackson gives six guidelines on what to do to make the situation less threatening and increase your chances of meeting up with him.

Learn how to leave an effective voicemail
You got the date; learn,some of the places to avoid and where you can go
Learn how to prepare for the date and how to handle yourself on the date

The Instant Reconnect Technique- This is a simple but great psychological tactic to use on your husband. The advice is not to use this technique too early on. He tells us when the best time to use it is. Also learn how to assess your “get together” using this technique.

Learn how to end your date or get together and what to avoid doing
There is a whole section of the book on how to handle sex very important
What if the date or get together goes wrong, he tells you what to do

Chapter 7
Maintaining the Fun and Love Without Dredging Up Old Wounds and Arguments
Learn how to embrace disagreements
Learn how to forgive and forget

Chapter 8
If your Relationship Can’t Be Saved – Moving On With Grace